I found some parents in forums asking if they should be concerned about installing a pet door. "Will my child be able to escape through it?"
Some parents replied with "I never had any problems. My kids never tried to get through it," Leaving the concerned
parent with a false sense of security.
I probably would've replied with the same lack of concern back in the day, since my son never tried to get out of the house. It was just not part of his nature.
Then it happened
The other day, I was speaking on the phone with one of the mother's (let's call her
Susan) of one of my students (let's call him Albert since I enjoy coming up with names that parents today would never name their child).
In the middle of the conversation, Albert tried to escape through the pet door. Susan responded, and I paraphrase, "you know you're not allowed through the doggie door! Get back in here!"
I thought to myself, "Wow! This pet door thing is a
real issue."
Susan shared with me that a few months ago, Albert's grandparents bought him a trampoline designed for toddlers/preschoolers. Well, naturally this was the best gift ever to Albert.
So the trampoline was placed in the backyard. Well, one day, Albert went missing for a moment or two. Within minutes Susan and her husband discovered him outside on the trampoline. He
had escaped through the pet door.
Thank goodness they found him right away and no worse for wear. And also lucky that he was jumping on the trampoline and not into the swimming pool.
Some kids are just born escape artists
Tovah Klein, Ph.D., director of the Barnard College Center for Toddler Development says that bolting from a parent's side is a toddler's way of exploring his independence.
"Starting around 18 months, toddlers suddenly realize, 'I'm my own person,'" Dr. Klein says. So they're eager to get out of the stroller and check out the world on their own. "They don't understand that when they run off, adults can't necessarily see or protect them," she explains.
Did this particular sentence have an impact on you, as it did with me? "THEY don't understand that when they run off, adults can't necessarily see
or protect them." This quote struck a chord with me.
So in other words, toddlers think that their parents are just these magical beings. They must feel so secure all the time. It doesn't matter what they do; they believe that they will always be safe.
More toddler/preschooler escape stories for you because I aim to
please
And from right here in the desert: A mother of two of my students told me the other day that her son has been able to crack the code of every type of doorknob and childproof doorknob known to man. There is nothing that won't hold him back.
Scientists today are still analyzing the
intricate workings of the toddler/preschooler brain in the hopes of designing the perfect childproof doorknob. Because when little kids want to get through a door, they will find a way.
A door to your house is somewhat of a challenge but a pet door. Easy as pie.
As you can see from this Facebook thread: Even an electronic smart door for pets can't
outsmart a toddler.